A man of wisdom once said: If a man's wife is not good and obedient to him, he will never have a stabilized life with her. And it may lead him to miss some aspects of his religion. He said, a troublesome wife can never make you happy in your life.
A bachelor once asked a married man and said: Is it true that, men don't actually know what troubles are until they get married?
The married man said to him, its rather that, a man cannot realized the importance of a good wife, until he is in troubles. Only a good wife stands by her husband, when he is in troubles or hardships.
Every man needs a good wife, an understanding wife. A wife who does not necessary get angry. A woman who is content with the little you give her. There are some women, by nature they are just troublesome, you cant change them.
Any woman who does not respect her husband and does not listen to him does not worth keeping. Because, you will never have a peaceful mind, nor even worship ALLAH very well.
This is not a theory but a practical certified and testified observations.
Prayer is the most potent weapon against downfall, the most effective medicine against sickness and the most valuable gift to someone we really love and care for.
May Allah in His infinite mercy protect you and your family from the aforementioned afflictions. Ameen.
