Bismillahir Rahmaanir Raheem
Allah says in Quran Chapter (33) Suuratul Aḥzaab (The Combined Forces vrs 56 that): HE, Allah sends His Salaat (Graces, Honours, Blessings, Mercy, etc.) on the Prophet (Muhammad S.A.W) and also His angels too (ask Allah to bless and forgive him). So you who believe! Send your Salaat on (ask Allah to bless) him (Muhammad S.A.W), and (you should) greet (salute) him with the Islamic way of greeting (salutation i.e. As-Salaamu 'Alaikum Warahmatullah). Allahu Akbar.
From the above, we've learned that the best form of love we can show to the Messenger and his family is to make dua for them, to ask Allah to grant them Jannatul Firdaus, to follow their teachings by action not only by words. To send more salaams as we do in Tashahhud on each salaat. If you claim to love the Prophet S.A.W, you will strive to do only what he did or taught or right things. He never went for discos and unnecessary outings, he never went to the beach to commit zina of the eyes, he warned against songs with musical instruments, he warned against intermixing etc, let's strive to emulate his excellent examples. Learn about his conducts, his family conducts, his righteous predecessors (the salafs) conducts etc. Let's declare Jihaad against our own evil thoughts and actions that makes us love those satanic tools of destruction such as music, going to the beach, intermixing, stealing people's credit cards for our selfish desires etc. These are satanic tools towards destruction so please STOP IT.
To be continued in shaa ALLAAH. Please remember we are in Rabeeu At-thani NOT JANUARY so don't waste your time wishing people new year. If a non Muslim wishes you, you can respond positively but let's not make today anything special aside the fact that we should be fasting as the prophet did most Mondays and Thursdays.
May ALLAH keep guiding us all and protect us from any satanic influences. AMIN
